to ask for help...it doesn't make you a bad Mom or Spouse. If you are receiving
help and are able to relax and rejuvenate yourself, you will be a better Mom than if you are completely exhausted and beginning
to resent your child.
your family cook, clean, watch the baby etc when they offer.
ASK FOR HELP! Even
if you don't think you'll need it, ask anyways. 5 mins without baby attached does help YOU feel better. If you feel better, the baby feels better.
GET AS MUCH HELP AS
YOU CAN.....I never realized how much I needed all of my family and friends to support us, especially in the beginning.